I have to tell you that I simply cannot understand why this keeps happening to me! (That’s when a rookie who did pretty good the first year just ain’t cuttin’ it the second year.) But before I reveal to you what you’ve been doing wrong, I want to commend you on what you’ve been doing right.I’ll notice a girl reading a book at a table and then I’ll ask her something about the book.Then I might tell her about the really interesting book that I’m reading and then it just kind of flows from there.Doc Love - Success Coach For Men Doc Love is a talk show host and entertainment speaker who coaches men in his seminars.For the past 30 years he has asked thousands of women, "Why do you stay with one man versus another?I also always check with her at the end of the date to see how she thinks things went and if she felt comfortable with me. Is it just that there’s a very high percentage of flakey girls who hang out in bookstores?
If I’m really conscientious I can get maybe ten or twelve phone numbers in a week and out of those I’ll get two or three actual dates which I figure is a pretty good batting average.(I hear stories from some guys who get phone numbers but almost no actual dates.) I usually take a girl out to dinner and then for a walk down “The Third Street Promenade” in Santa Monica where there’s all kinds of shops, crafts, live music and it’s great for people watching too." Hey Doc, I’ve probably read about ten of your articles, so I know some things about your “System”, but I also know that I have a lot to learn.I’m very confused about something that keeps happening to me with women and I’m hoping that you just might be the guy to solve this mystery for me once and for all. The place that I do best is at bookstores that have a coffee house attached, places like Borders or Barnes and Noble.And then, I ask her if she’d like to go out on a second date. The reasons why you aren’t getting a second date are blatantly obvious to anyone who has been studying “The System”. So you can relax Mason because by the end of this article your journey to greater success with women will have already started.
That’s where it all goes down the tubes because they always come up with some excuse for why they can’t go out with me again. We’re going to get you out of your “Sophomore Slump” as they say in Baseball.