Whatever our reasons, finding love and intimacy may seem so impossible that we've practically given up.
But if you've found your way to this page that means there's still a little spark in you that wants that wonderful, warm feeling of being loved and connected with someone special ..that might also just mean that you're willing to go for it!
Many of us have been in marriages without touch and romance for so long, continually focused on our work or children, that we ask ourselves, "Do I even really want it anymore?
" Let's face it, love isn't always as easy as it looks in the movies!
It seems so natural and easy to imagine gliding along on the magic of love forever, but how often does that happen?
The truth is that intimacy takes being comfortable with ourselves and our relationships, and for some of us, that's an easy order to fill.
At Go Va Counseling we're committed to helping you find the magic in your love life again.
Some of us carry an STD, like Herpes, that makes us avoid dating out of shame and embarrassment.
Meanwhile, others of us have been in relationships that are so old and dry, or filled with tension and arguing, that we can't even imagine trying to rekindle a sense of closeness again.
Many of us have difficulties trusting, maybe because we've been hurt, sexually abused, or seen so many relationships around us not working. Some of us have a hard time even getting to the starting line.
We may have social anxieties that make dating nearly impossible, or have difficulty opening-up and talking to people.
ADOPTIONANGER & RESENTMENTBIPOLAR /MOOD SWINGSBORDERLINE PERSONALITYCHRONIC PAIN MANAGEMENTCODEPENDENCYCOPING SKILLSCUTTING & SELF-HARMDEPRESSION & GRIEFEMOTIONAL /BINGE EATINGPTSDSEX, LOVE & INTIMACY We all crave it!
..how many of us are living truly satisfied with our love lives?