So if a guy only seems to message you at ungodly hours this is usually a sign that he’s only really interested in something purely physical.
He tries to make the conversation sexual at every given opportunity Don’t get me wrong, I love a guy who can add a bit of sexual tension to a conversation, but if a guy tries to steer your Tinder conversation in a overtly sexual direction at every given opportunity, the chances are that the only thing about you that he’s interested in getting to know are your lady bits.
What’s more, guys who are obsessed with sex and can’t seem to stop talking about it are usually the ones who aren’t having much of it and are desperate for some.
He only messages you late at night Let’s be honest, no one messages a stranger after 10 in the night just for good conversation.
In fact, most of my guy friends who have a lot of success with casual hookups on Tinder admit that they usually blast message all their matches after midnight on Fridays and Saturdays hoping that at least one of them will be bored, lonely or horny, or all three.
(Unless your hair or your smile really is your selling point.)A guy who’s really interested in you and is potentially interested in dating you will notice things that most other men do not, and won’t waste your time with generic, cookie-cutter compliments.
He wants to meet without first getting to know you So here’s the deal; guys who are on Tinder solely for hookups won’t take the time to try to get to know you.
Really not the type that you want to be wasting your Tinder minutes on.
He gives you generic compliments Over the years I’ve found that there are two types of guys that give generic compliments:1. Guys who are only interested in sex So the next time you hear from a guy on Tinder that you have the “prettiest smile that he’s ever seen” or that you have “the most beautiful hair ever” you might want to hold onto your horses.